You have a family and your life is together, but you're sent to war while your spouse stays home and raises the kids alone. This applies to the women of the this website too. You can end the whole war if you send one person to his grave by betraying him/her. They look up and admire you and you're gonna use this guy/gal for your own needs. Everyone is pressuring you to end the world because he/she won't do it unless you ask because your both sorta like war buddies.
Would you lie and trick this man/woman into giving his life, or would you stay at war for years to come taking more lives by the thousands? Think about this, because he/she has a family too. What make you so special, you could give your life to end the war.